Respect, Apologies, and Successful Relationships

Two of the things that make the largest differences in successful vs unsuccessful marriages is the degree and amoung of respect and apology/forgiveness that is given between partners.

Having trouble in your relationship? Look at the degree of respect you afford your partner, and the amount, and sincerity of your apologies. Apologizing is just one way of taking responsbility for what you done and how you have acted towards your partner. It is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength.

Taking responsibility also is indicative of the amount of trust that exists in a relationship. The less there is, the less vulnerable partners become, and the less they apologize and take responsibility.

But you can use these tools to BUILD strength and trust. It will feel scary and you may be resentful at first, but keep your mind and eye on the goal--and it will bring huge results.